Agham
CN
Thu, 12 Feb 1998 21:44:40 +0900

The purpose of this message is to try and patch things up between you and Dis on one side, and Lagoon, Hector, Vector and Baryon on the other side. I feel that the current situation is worsening and may probably create irreconcilable differences if not given attention soon.

Lagoon tells me that you said that people in the CNN are incapable of respectful dialog. What he, and espcially my brothers, are peeved about is why did you not even try to talk seriously to them. Lagoon says that you could have written something about the lambastos getting out of hand, telling them how you are hurt by them. One thing I have learned during my brothers' stay here with me last Christmas is that most lambastos is meaningless. They say certain lines from movies and from experiences with others as a reaction to certain situations. They are not meant to hurt at all. The emotionless nature of plain text probably makes it appear even more insulting than it seems. Dis and yourself have been the target of these lambastos mainly because they don't see or hear from you very often. Dis has a habit of replying to every item of lambastos and that only makes things worse. CNN is not lambastos if you look closely. It keeps us in touch, especially Baryon and I since we are out of the country. You can't convince them to change their ways by cutting off communication. On the contrary, you should explain your side and ask them to explain theirs. Try it and you may find that they might just be capable of serious talk.

Lagoon says he is willing to work things out. Please try and find time to talk things over with him. Lagoon listens if you don't act like a parent or an older brother giving advice. Try and have a serious talk with Lagoon and even Hec and Vec. As long as you make them understand the seriousness of the situation, they will listen. The more you don't communicate, the greater the misunderstanding. I am really hoping we can clear up this matter real soon.

--Agham